The idea of starting and running your own business is seductive.
I'll be my own Boss, work the hours that I want, become world renowned, be independent, be rich, be a somebody.
Here's the reality check and just a glimpse of what you can expect for around 20 out of your 24 hour day.
Incredible stress, anxiety, doubt, heartbreak, sleepless nights, emotional roller coasters, destruction to relationships, lost friends, embarrassment. And how about failed marriages, financial ruin, lawsuits, failing health, creating family rifts, social isolation, unrealized dreams, favors for family and friends, guilt, and the always painful "if" thoughts ("If I just would have..." "If he just could have..." "If I had just bought..." "If the bank just would have ...." "If the customer had just....
My personal driver has always been to target markets where I can make a difference. For example the thought of being a property developer has never really stirred me, developing an online marketplace that brings financial services to all 'floats my boat'.
Here are just a few reality check questions you should ask yourself before you embark on what is a lifetime commitment.
- I am willing to lose everything.
- I embrace failure.
- I am always willing to do tedious work.
- I can handle watching my dreams fall apart.
- Even if I am paralysed with the flu and my mother passed away last week, there is nothing that will keep me from being ready to work.
- My relationship/marriage is so strong, nothing work-related could ever damage it.
- My family doesn't need an income.
- This is a connected world and I don't need alone time. I want to be reachable 24/7 by my employees, customers, and business partners.
- I like instability and I live for uncertainty.
- I don't need a vacation for years at a time.
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